Thread:4solace/@comment-28519806-20180212203536/@comment-29954643-20180212230018

Kat, I did not mean to imply any malice on your part, nor did I even think that. But, I do take issue with your seeming desire to imply malice on my part too. You do seem to be consistently saying that YOU will need to sort it out. I think that this is what rubs me the wrong way. YOU have decided to be the facilitator with or without Sannse. I do not mean to pick on your every word but it is this aspect of YOUR decision making process on so many issues that is at the core of the unrest here.

While it is true that I have an active and 'in your face' approach that some may not like, I am NOT an admin here. I am a vocal and concerned member of this community no matter how much you wish that it not be true. Shutting down a differing opionion from yours by whatever means (demeaning me or more severe punishments) while it may make a group of members feel more comfortable is simply not the way to garner trust from this membership.

Let me make an idiot out of myself if that is what some think. Let the members think on their own. Trust that there are members that have extreme views on either side of a discussion. Trust that there are more members who are in the middle of these two disparate POVs. - El