Thread:OylerD/@comment-25989346-20160421015027/@comment-27108021-20160421202728

Please feel free to bitch and wine (er...whine) and say anything you want to. Sometimes it does make you feel better.

So...in my darkest days I always had the final exit plan. Which I made in detail in advance so I wouldn't just let emotion and wine help me to decisions. It goes like this...

Finally had it? Yes.

Got your credit cards? Yes. And if you don't have any with room, get more.

Pick a destination. Book flight and hotels.

Go on trip. Spend until all cards go up in flames. It doesn't matter if you don't want to this is the rule.

Only then can you off yourself...if you still want to. Make sure you've let time occur and have made a complete change to your surroundings.

I never got beyond picking destinations. Which is why my "I want to go there" list is so long, I suppose. But believe me I was tempted many times.

Maybe not a good plan for everyone but the main ingredients are to let time occur, change surroundings, burn it all down first. And I swear to god if you take that as me advocating arson I will find your furry butt and kick it.

Feel free to feel sorry for yourself. For a while. But then get moving again. Schedule the next pity party for the next day and do something else until then.