Thread:Sannse/@comment-27643406-20170718213611/@comment-31527938-20170724040916

With all due respect everyone (take a breath this is NOT an attack)....if this site gets shut down, everyone had a hand in it....not just some🌸  So to be honest that was a low blow and I've seen a lot of those and they're really not necessary. We all need to put our egos down and quit trying to be right. I am far far from perfect and I'm not a princess and I think we all need to take accountability for the way we behave and what comes out of her mouths. And what do all the jabs do and what does it accomplish? Nothing at all, so let's be nice🌸

We need a more structured platform I believe in order for all to find peace. The community needs a role and the admins do what they do, but before anything is decided it should be presented to the community for input and vote before anything is decided. It's a community wiki let's treat it like that. Things are getting way too complicated, let's drop it down to the basics and it's a wiki for all of us the admin's job is to just to make sure it doesn't get out of control which I think could be better and is definitely an area needed for improvement. (I'm sorry if you take that as a criticism but it's my observation and it's constructive not meant in a negative or mean way). For me, bring issues to the community to vote and discuss before anything is decided, for me st least, shows a sign of respect.

I also believe, and this hasn't been thought thru thoroughly at by me, but I feel it needs to be said, but I believe we need to have maybe an elected group of community members become mediators. To be able to mediate bickering between everyone to resolve issues with admin's and members, there's a proper way of doing it with a sign of respect and we need it.

As of right now, getting this wiki back to more peaceful and honorable and respectful site is almost impossible if we don't start collaborating.

We all just need to calm down take a breath hear all sides and maybe make some different policies. Obviously policies that are in place now  are not working and are creating a bigger divide. So maybe we do need to change some policies and work together instead of against. We're adults, we can do it I have faith in it and us if we all put our weapons down.

I have brought this message with kid gloves as to not attack or have anyone insinuate anything from it. I cannot change other people's perception of my message, but then that's not my issue.

However I believe something like what I mentioned should be actually discussed and thought about and things can go back to the way they should be. But things need to change policies need to change and and some don't do well with change. But it's for the best and I wish you all the best!!