Thread:4solace/@comment-32738051-20160816224133/@comment-26857065-20160817011413

4solace I am so happy to hear that you are taking steps to take care of you ! You and your family come first !

I have lost many friends over the years who just could not understand my life style and how I have to change plans last minute because Hubby would surprisingly come home, or Because I have commitments to some organizations ( which these organizations understand when Hubby is home that comes first)and some times I am needed last minute. I will ALWAYS put my family first plus medical reasons as well.The good though is over the years I have weeded out from this many people who are solely takers in relationships and I have only solid friendships now. People who understand my life and I theirs. I know this is very different from your situation but over the years I have learned that people that do not understand really are not worth worrying about. Which I would imagine thinking about it you have probably already know this ...

So yes .... Please do say no to people without feeling guilt .take care of you, take care of your family and those who truly matter will understand. Be good to yourself and try not to over do it. A gentle hug being sent your way 💕💕💕💕💕