Thread:KJ8/@comment-27990581-20170217130034/@comment-27990581-20170302090458

Just got a call from the hospital. Mom's coming home tomorrow. Because she refused the therapy in resort, they cut her off completely. It's quite logical, if she doesn't care about herself, why should they?! She could come home in three weeks WALKING (even without accessory - I don't know the word for it in English), but now she's coming home tomorrow with an ambulance and she'll bed on the bed. I hope dad's happy now! I don't know if he ever asked himself WHO will take care of her. Guess he'll start asking that tomorrow when she'll be home already.

@Lidewey, thank you. You're assuming right. Then add that he's really stubborn and egoistic. It's always about him. :( I can't force anything. She's an adult and she's conscious, sane. Me and doc can't do anything what she doesn't want to. And the only reason she doesn't want to is because of my father. Also, there's no point in speaking with him, we would only argue.  I know, I tried it a few hours ago. He's not even admiting that this is all his fault. Playing the victim again. :(

@ElizabethKM and Pamster315, thanks. You're both so sweet.

@4paws, thank you. These are all very good advices, they truly are, but he would never do anything like that. He even mocks the ones that do. And just to put it out here, he was NEVER a good husband. Never.

I'm just so sad and so angry at the same time. I can't take care of her. There are not enough hours in one day. And if she listened to doctors, she wouldn't need anyone taking care of her. she could walk for Christ's sake!!! I feel bad about that and that's not fair. I don't know what we'll do. He wanted her home, but now...he won't take care of her, he won't sleep by her side, he won't cook, he won't wash her or change her diapers, he'll just keep on playing the victim and complaing about everything and everyone. I can't quit my job, I can't put my son on the side track. I'll go crazy. It's just so messed up and it wouldn't have to be - that's the part that angers me the most.

Sending you all love and hugs. <3