Thread:Pamster315/@comment-26424426-20170530210128

I've received emails from friends confused and dismayed by recent exchanges here on the wiki. I will not relive them to all our great relief. One has said they have lost several long-time friends in the game -- maybe it's a part of this, maybe some people are like me and cutting back because of RL. Everyone is due respect for their choices.

So this is what I said to this friend. I'm asking Kat ot close this because I am not debating this -- and this is my wall. I post this with genuine regards for you all and no motivation other than the desire for peace, fun, compassion, respect and friendship.

“The pain I feel now is the happiness I had before. That's the deal.” ~ C.S. Lewis

You and AAA had been such great friends and it has been difficult for us your mutual friends to see you both angry and hurt. I choose not to blame either of you or anyone other than the troll who created all the mess. You both and others had good intentions, and the hard part was watching both "sides" (that includes others, not just you two) question motivations, etc., especially when some did not have a complete history.

You both mean well, and we get angriest with and most hurt by those we are closest to. I think that is what happened. I think some of you would like to say "I'm sorry. Forgive me. I forgive you. We are friends. Let's be friendly again."

I have never deleted someone because they are friends with someone I may have issues with. I cannot speak for other people, and would not do so -- I respect the choices they make best for them. Life is complex and so are relationships. You are my friend. AAA is my friend.

I just wish everyone would stop reliving this -- people are getting hurt, people are leaving, people are getting banned. You've all said your piece. It is time to move on.

You were all friends. You are good people. Life is short.

<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:Verdana,sans-serif;font-size:10pt;">Love to you all! And as our beloved Tammie always said, "Happy playing!" <ac_metadata title="Just my feelings, and how I see things....  (I love ellipses.)"> </ac_metadata>