Thread:NowayJosie/@comment-30544675-20190226152735

Nothing on the wiki is private. Any member may read any discussion, including a "conversation" on another member's wall. There are no rules that no one else may join in. (The "wall owner" does have the ability to remove a post from their own wall.)  Criticizing or being less than kind when referring to another member, whether or not you use their name, is not helpful.

This has served me well:

 