Thread:PapillonBeauty/@comment-28519806-20180221182445/@comment-31789406-20180221201039

That's all I want to see and hear from you .. that you realize and want to do better! I hold everyone to high standards when I know it is in them to achieve. I came 4.20.17 - right in the middle of a hostile environment of words. Seemed a half dozen members were in a battle of intellectual dominance. That's the hardest time for an admin to overcome. They have to disengage no matter how difficult it is in order to keep peace and their ability to reason has to shine. Some have the natural ability and some have to learn. Never lead through the concept of control but through finding peaceful solutions and no one should ever be blocked from the community because you do not know how to deal with all personalities. Some members have soft, kind hearted personalities and some have strong dominating personalities. You need to learn how to take a deep breath and respond to each with the respect they deserve. It's not giving in to anyone - rather handling the situation with the professionalism to solve the issue not add to it. Just remember I have no ill will against you - rather I will always hold you accountable for your actions and reactions. I see you apologized to anon. That was a post you should never have posted. It only made you seem hostile and demeaning toward another member. Using the phrase "pond scum" toward another person is not a professional response. But Kat I have seen you be nice and helpful to other members which is how it should be for an admin. I also know you have spent countless hours editing which is very commendable and appreciated by this wiki. But remember any rules about editing should be fair to all - it's easier to repair words on pages than to mend emotions of not being fair. So thst is now 2 things we have in common - Caitlin future and the success of our wiki!