Thread:4solace/@comment-32738051-20160816224133/@comment-32738051-20160817153448

I can't say it better than anyone else, 4solace, but I am glad that you're past that bad patch and are taking care of you.

No is probably the hardest word in the English language to use and yet probably also the most important one. And it is not like you're always saying no all the time to each and every person...you're just being judicious so you can take care of you and still have something left over to share. In my last job, we talked a lot about work/life balance, something which none of us talking about it was ever really that good at it, myself included. But balance is what it is all about. Be honest with yourself: do you ever say no enough to achieve a balance or do you only say it enough to not go over the edge? Anyone worth having in your life will understand that when you have to say no it is only because at that particular moment saying yes would create an imbalance you cannot afford. No need to feel any guilt whatsoever...it's just a fact of life. 😍💕👪💕