Thread:Pamster315/@comment-26424426-20170710212019

http://the-secret-society.wikia.com/wiki/Thread:461717

ClarifyingPamster315 Hi, El. You closed the thread and I get that. Wall issues seem to be a question. I'm on the road and hoping I can get this in before it gets eaten.

El, you and I agree. It is a sucky feeling and I do know what it is like to be unheard, disregarded and dismissed. (I've felt like this for three months now.) No one deserves to feel like that. I've respected you to come straight to you; everyone deserved the same.

I have no issue with you posting or not, or editing or not, or deleting or not. I have done tham all, and have never raised the matter with you. I have not referred to you acting like TDC.

In answer to your questions, you need say nothing at all, El. I had no expectations. I do want to clarify that this is my voice and these are my posts. We have mutual friends -- indeed we have been friends -- and no one had any input to or knowledge of my posts. Most probably don't know, or don't care, or don't want to be involved. I usually run for the hills.

As for the image, again, not my cup of tea but....And, yes, I do get how you and others may feel about it.

My wall instead states, "Assume positive intent." So for the most part -- with occasional lapses in judgment, maybe today even ;-)  -- I try to act with positive intent and to word my posts to take into account differences in languages, cultures, personal histories, someone having a rough day, etc. (Dang, that's a loooong sentence!)  I don't always suceed, but I try.

You want to make the wiki better, and that is good. Your advice to me was good -- truly. Sometimes I need the reminder with my thin skin as folks here know all too well.

There will be bumps along the way, so we just have to try to find a way to ride them out together. My door -- er, wall -- is always open, 24/7 to you and everyone.

Pam

Edited: For typos -- I'm that OCD. I'm glad this was re-opened because I want Imskrak to know that I thought nothing wrong with her post, and that it was a general reminder to us all that words have power, words do matter, words can hurt. Words can also heal when they come from a genuine heart and open mind. Being on the road, I felt rushed. Thank you. Edited by Pamster315 2 hours ago 