Thread:TurtleSeeker/@comment-30339728-20170112220105/@comment-30224201-20170112222957

You did not intentional cause it. I was someone that deleted a bunch of friends for not gifting me. When I went on the leave because of taking care of my mom and then the holidays, I asked you to delete me and you did not. It spoke to me. I decided to share that new found wisdom on the friend exchange and got blasted by someone that did not agree with my newly learned suggestion. I thought I was making a meanful suggestion and in return got 2 different individuals going off on my suggestion where I even stated their point of view. I retailiated in my subsequent posts on them and AAA a burecrat (over admins) / admin moved the post which I thought was wonderful and that he would delete everything from the first flamer on. Instead he puts it pending for deletation as well as gives his friend Kudos. I am a 34 year old man (not too far from 35 - 1 month 12 days) and I have strong feelings about getting silenced when trying to help others. I feel the world needs to help each other and we could get so much more accomplished. It is idealistic but in the end, some of our greatest accomplishments are from people working together. I feel no one should have to be silenced when they are trying to help and their views are different from someone else's. I pride myself on trying to see why someone feels the way they do but I am human don't want to be attacked. You did not do it. You have taken me under your wing and what means even more, you have taken my family under your wing and that means so much more to me than a biased board. I felt I owed it to you to let you know I am looking elsewhere to play and talk to people because I consider you what I call "good people" and know those people are irreplacable as friends. I am sure you think I shouldn't be hurt by all this but in the end I am. If you could not tell from other posts, I wear my feelings on my sleeve. Case and point is when I asked you to stop gifting me before. I did not want you to feel you were not getting anything in return and be mad. In the same token, I projected the way I was playing when I told you that on you and your response changed my style to the view I had shared. Even your response trying to make a situation right that you did not cause shows you have a wonderful heart. That is why I knew asking you to look out for 2 out 3 of the most important females in my life would not be much to ask. The other is Tiffany my daughter but she stopped playing the game.