Thread:SeriouslyAddicted/@comment-26384327-20150716154308/@comment-26333212-20150716184809

Will do springs etc. 

AAA you realize that you made me write here one more time after I convinced myself that I should quit here don't you?

Honestly, I was very depressed after seeing some replies to my reasoning message as I didn't mean to offend people, especially Invictus. I always referred to Invictus very respectfully in my posts. In my reasoning post I shared some excerpts from my spreadsheet to demonstrate my reasons why I dropped some friends whose gifting was in dissonance with my personal understanding about the game. My understanding is if the game allows us to gift 50 free gifts per day, then I should give each of my friends at least 1 gift every day, and I should invite as many friends as I am able (willing if you will) to help every day. It's like saying "hi there", you are not ignored, I hope I helped you a little bit. If I invite more friends than I can gift every day, how do I expect them to gift me back? Would I expect them to gift me every day even though I (supposedly) only gift on rotation and gift them time of time? It wouldn't be fair, would it? Do they need to use spreadsheet to gift me back after I gifted? Time slips by like grains of sand when working with spreadsheets or scrolling through friends trying to remember who gifts and how. A couple of additional seconds per friend turns into many minutes per day, hours per month. So the obvious solution for me to make my gifting more time-efficient and fair was to drop those friends who gifted on rotation or had a "friends fever" to achieve friends rewards. Personally, I don't see those rewards tempting/worthy to skip gifting some friends or wasting my time helping 600 or so friends per day. So right now I gift each one of my active (with me) friends every day. I do have some favorite friends who helped me when I was in need in brushes or something else. My husband is one of them, and you AAA is right next to him in my friend tab, so when I help my husband, I always help you because you are a nice friend. My husband has about 20 friends, and each day I hear that he only receives a couple of gifts from those 20. Without my help he would be struggling to complete collections.

I tried to stop thinking that I was presented as a bad person here, but honestly I cried so much these days that I see doubles because my eyes are swollen as hell.

And at the end: I am not a native English speaker, I am writing on my wall, I was never good with words, and if I am not joking, I am always honest. Probably even brutally honest.