Thread:OodlesOfTootles/@comment-33007057-20180323075144/@comment-31789406-20180327023016

Sara, our lives are one big journey - made up of significant and some rather insignificant moments. It is filled with likes, dislikes, regrets, failures and hopefully many successes. However it takes appreciation and understanding of all to completely fulfill your journey. Those girls are trying to complete their journeys too. You are both a part of the other as insignificant as it seems. With all the hard work you put into your journey thus far, why would you not want to allow yourself to participate in your whole journey? In life we have choices, and our journey reflects those choices. Part of the choice you have to make is to allow ladies who should be deemed significant to be a part of your journey. They want to be allowed to give you the opportunity to be recognized for your hard work - why would you not let them give you a moment in your journey that I guarantee you will remember when you recount the steps you took that leads you to the woman you are and to the woman you will become. Please do not jump to rash decisions because you cannot see their importance. Go to the ceremony, make many pictures, let Diane and Chrise be a part of it with you. Proud is good - do not ever let pride stand in your way. Send the invites out. Your family needs to be allowed to be a part too. The way to avoid regrets is to not allow the opportunity to have any. Allow yourself to enjoy your journey!