Thread:KJ8/@comment-27990581-20170217130034/@comment-30339728-20170302165324

Are there home care/health services that the city/provincial government will provide to assist you? My parents lived in the Netherlands and those were available and oh, so very helpful and literally life and sanity saving.

Otherwise, you may have to make the "tough love" decision and sit back and let your father do it - without you. Maybe that would make him change....Regardless this is awful for you. But you are right, you can't quit your job or your son.

I know it's horrendous to go through all of this and you are in an impossible place - the adult/child - Both aspects have their roles and places and it's ever so hard to break the barriers that separates them.

Hugs and more....