Thread:Jillers/@comment-26501887-20160605234614/@comment-26424426-20160607134228

Oh, Jill, I wanted to again say I am so sorry, and how I understand what you are feeling. I went through the same with my mom, and that's one reason you, Dean and I three were brought together.

We know what you are feeling, so please give yourself permission to feel. You grieve for what has passed, what you had hoped for, what will never be -- and also for those final moments together when all that mattered was you were together. You both did your best, and there was love no matter what. There was love.

You are a good person, a good daughter, and your mother can take great pride in the legacy she left us in you. In you, you and Scott, and Kristin and Kianna.

I wish I could be there, but know you are surrounded by love.

Love to you, my dear friend, Pam