Thread:4solace/@comment-27886349-20160720092028/@comment-27886349-20160721042906

If they aren't totally self absorbed as so many are in their 20's, they will see a mold they should resolve and pledge to follow. And it's better to dog ear a novel than your child!!!

It kills me to not be involved in my grandchildrens lives due to selfish self centered controlling parents and my divorce.

I'm at a point in life at 69 that I have no idea what my passions are, what makes me happy and nothing excites me. Living alone with a 55 gallon aquarium and Lilo obviously doesn't help. But at least we don't argue when we converse... It still annoys me that they sometimes win though!!!

I've told the VA counselors that I feel like a ship, lost at sea with a broken rudder and no wind in my sails. They have no idea what to do for me except pound drugs down me.

You just keep struting your stuff lady. If half those girls reach your age and have as much going for them, they will be blessed.