Thread:Gaiasweetgirl/@comment-30544675-20180626152131/@comment-34076922-20180626191901

FYI - I meant private as in between her and myself - not open forum but I do know everything is everywhere. LOL

I did some investigtaion and I do believe my opinion is valid, sadly that is the realization I have come too. Hilo - for some reason or another - tends to attack me, and on multiple occassions (not sure why, but this is not new). While my comment was not to offend anyone, I would have much prefer she come to me and not on someone else's wall to confront me. That said, I have phrased my commentary in a way that is my opinion, not a fact. (Hilo said her family would notify the wiki and that too, is speculation and not fact... should her post be removed as well?) I am not sure if "moderating" an opinion when only one person has a complaint is valid? In an open forum I could understand but on a members wall?

Having taken time to put some thought into this: I don't know if editing posts when someone (to whom the comment in NOT directed) should be able to request/suggest they be removed. It may start a precedence where admin might be moderating many conversations and admonishing opinions whether or not they are agreed upon. Just something to consider.

BTW - I  have never requested someone to intervene when I was attacked and found comments about myself upsetting and/or untruthful. I just moved on and didn't think twice, and realized the persons talking must have nothing better to do than to talk about me. LOL  =)