Thread:Katlovr/@comment-28519806-20180211193414

Jujumouse wrote: Katlovr wrote: Karen, I apologize for asking the questions I did. If it had been anyone else who had asked them this thread would not be at the point it is.

It was never my intention to instigate anything, just to get feedback from you on some important issues. Again I apologize. Please don’t remove my answer so that all present can know my true intentions here. Thank you. 😺

Hi Kat, so my question to you will be...How do you plan on fixing this need to jump before thinking things out? It seems like you are quick to the draw and are unable to pause and reflect before you post. I am all for strong leadership but there is a line between strong and abrasive. I also believe in giving one the benefit of the doubt until they have proven to be unfit/unworthy of the position they seek. If you wish to continue to be an admin here how do you plan to convince those who have been put off by your actions to trust you moving forward? I mean these questions with no malice, but as a member who plans on sticking around I would like peace and enjoyment for all.

This question is for Kat to answer, please no rebuttals or jumping to Kats defense, just a honest thoughtful response from Kat.

Thanks🙂 Hi Jujumouse,

Thank you for your questions. I will be the first to admit that sometimes I am too quick to answer and therefore end up seeming abrasive and impatient. In all fairness, it can be hard to give an opinion on a matter when one feels defensive a lot of the time.

There are a couple of members who jump on me no matter what I say, and often I am being as diplomatic as I can be. I understand that I need to learn to have more patience and I will work on that.

I am an honest, no nonsense person who does not believe in fluff but my intentions are always for the greater good of this wiki and its members. When I have no tone, one is perceived and I am often judged because I sometimes have one but this does not mean that I have one all the time.

I have never done anything for any member here not to trust me, nor would I. I need to work on my delivery, I’ll admit that. Others need to not read between the lines when I say something. I believe that communication is a two-way street and the passive aggressive answers and harsh judgments need to stop, this includes me.

All I want for this wiki’s members is for them to have a fun place to come chat about a game they love and be able to look up accurate information on said game. I know I am sometimes perceived as a bully but I really am not, I have and am willing to compromise most of the time.

Yes, I have my flaws but absolutely no one is perfect here. I will happily change my behavior and I hope that others will too. I am more than willing to work things out with those who have their differences with me.

I hope this helps to answer your questions.

💕💕😻😻💕💕

Kat 