Thread:Snowdog67/@comment-38.114.201.233-20190417231423

Well Snow, I thought you might take a different position on this, but evidently Gaia has your ear and you have her back. So read what I posted on gaia's wall. I know you have that capability. I did not swear, I was not impolite, and I brought it to Gaia, instead of Nessie. Vilify me if you will, but I would like to draw your attention to the fact, plain and simple, that I did not commit the original offense. This wiki should never be a place for such sordid humor. I did not take the post out of context, as Gaia infers; it was sexual in nature and there can be no denial of that fact. I tried to teach Gaia that condoning such attitudes toward women only enables the behavior to continue. If I did not stand firmly against both the attitude itself and the condoning of it, then I would be no better than the people who blame the victim. The price of the behavior is paid only by the victim. Therefore, I ask if you would apologize to Nessie if your daughter or granddaughter had ever been raped or was trapped in a marriage where domestic violence occurred? It is not a joke, it will never be funny, and it is completely unacceptable! Yet, here I see Gaia defending Nessie, and then referring my ipaddress to you. Arrest me, ban me, what is the penalty for calling such behavior out? I fail to see how I should be the villain in this matter. Instead of apologizing to Nessie, perhaps you all should take some sensitivity training? I would have preferred to have this resolved in a different manner, such as someone, perhaps Gaia, since she was all over it, remove the post instead of defending Nessie's poor sensitivity. Instead of doing what was right, all I see is this clickish behavior...poor Nessie? I know that i am not the only woman to ever be raped, but you simply should NOT permit this to be seen as a ''joke'. And the offender should not be protected! If you cannot support dignity for women, I don't want to belong to this community. So, you have my IP and I would appreciate your position. Niki 