Thread:Pamster315/@comment-26424426-20160817021155/@comment-26857065-20160822154829

I did mean to post here after reading and giving thought and weighing out if I should respond or not. But another busy weekend as summer starts to wind down. Better late than never right ?

Pamster I do not think that there is anything you can do although with your kind heart I know you want to fix all. I think as others have stated it is a busy time for most and come fall more of this family will be back to posting. As this family grows the dynamics will change the climate will change and change is usually good. As for me ...and I can not know if this is the same for others or not....but Besides being very busy .... I now worry with everything I post .... How will it be taken, is my wording perfect, will I offend someone etc etc so instead of being fun and relaxing like it always was here I ( for now anyways ) find it a bit stressful. This I am sure will go away or lessen in time. This is not something anyone can fix. I know it is important to read and reread our posts before posting as was pointed out clearly by a few but that just really feels like a chore. I do not like feeling bad after a post or going on with my RL and keep thinking back to what I write if it will offend and sit worrying through the day. In time for me anyways this will lessen I am sure. I can't speak for others but I wanted to give you an honest opinion honest for me anyways .... And now I will probably worry for the rest of the day about what I just wrote lol Don't worry Pam, I do believe slowly things are getting mproving again as a whole ... I do believe once summer is done holidays are done etc etc this place will feel more like it always has...I am not going to read and retread what I just wrote because I know I will make a bunch of changes or just not bother to post this. It is improving here Pamster do not worry .... There is a great bunch of people here who care about each other, who welcome the new with open arms, who are always here for each other and no matter what else happens has happened or will happen those things being in place will always out weigh most any negative. Happy Playing :)